UPDATE: A popular etiquette expert has just revealed essential tips for navigating social situations involving smartphone sharing at dinner tables, especially for those concerned about health and hygiene.
In a recent column, Miss Manners addressed a pressing concern from a reader who is uncomfortable with a friend’s habit of passing around his phone during meals. The reader’s husband is immunocompromised, raising valid concerns about germ exposure.
With gatherings becoming increasingly common as the holiday season approaches, the advice couldn’t be more relevant RIGHT NOW. Miss Manners suggests a few strategies to graciously decline phone-sharing without causing embarrassment.
For immediate relief, she recommends simply standing up, approaching your husband, and intercepting the phone before it reaches him. You can express enthusiasm for the photo, showing it to your husband, and then easily pass it to the next guest. This quick maneuver not only protects your husband but also maintains the flow of the gathering.
In addition, Miss Manners emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries. A gentle announcement declaring the table a device-free zone can provide a long-term solution to avoid future discomfort. Alternatively, having a private conversation with your friend can also help alleviate any awkwardness.
The timing of these tips is critical as many will gather for holiday celebrations, including Christmas parties and open houses. Miss Manners points out that etiquette still requires a response to invitations, even if no RSVP is requested. This means guests should politely decline if they choose not to attend, maintaining the spirit of etiquette during the festive season.
In a world where smartphone sharing has become a common albeit controversial practice, these guidelines offer a refreshing perspective on maintaining personal health and social grace.
Next Steps: As you prepare for upcoming gatherings, consider how to implement these strategies effectively. Engaging with friends and family about phone use can foster a more enjoyable dining experience for everyone involved.
Miss Manners continues to offer her expertise on various social dilemmas. For readers seeking further guidance, she encourages questions to be sent through her website or email. Don’t miss out on these timely and valuable insights as you navigate the complexities of modern dining etiquette this holiday season!
