The Pentagon has formally requested that a Toronto-based sex toy shop cease sending items, specifically butt plugs, to military personnel stationed at a U.S. naval base in Bahrain. The unusual situation unfolded when cofounder Grace Bennett of the shop, known as Bonjibon, discovered two letters from the Pentagon after opening returned packages. These letters indicated that such items are prohibited in Bahrain due to local laws against “pornographic materials or devices.”
Bennett explained to CTV News that the store does not ship its products to Bahrain, suggesting that the items were likely forwarded from another location to Navy personnel stationed there. “We didn’t even know it was going to Bahrain until it came back to us months later, and it just kind of unraveled this whole… hilarious moment,” she remarked.
Despite the humorous nature of the situation, Bennett expressed concern over the accusatory tone of the letters, stating, “This sounds like a you problem.” She emphasized that the responsibility lies with whoever ordered the products and possibly arranged for them to be sent to the base without understanding the implications of local laws.
The Department of Defense has established clear guidelines regarding prohibited items for personnel in Bahrain. According to the 2024 instructions from the Pentagon’s Transportation Command, items such as sex toys, nudity magazines, and other pornographic materials are explicitly banned. A leaflet from the Naval Supply Systems Command also reinforces that “no pornographic material” should be brought into the conservative Gulf nation.
In addition to sex toys, the leaflet warns that other items such as alcohol, pork products, and any Israeli-made goods are also prohibited. It further advises that all shipments are subject to x-ray screening by Bahrain customs, with any confiscated items expected to be destroyed.
The incident highlights broader issues around sexual expression within the U.S. military, where discussions about sexuality and gender identity can be contentious. While sex remains a taboo topic, the return of these items raises questions about the awareness of service members regarding local customs and laws in foreign countries.
Bennett expressed disappointment that the intended customer did not receive their order, stating, “I’m sad that they didn’t get their order.” She noted the layers of complexity and humor surrounding the situation, indicating that while it is amusing, it also reflects a lack of understanding about cultural sensitivities.
As this story continues to garner attention, it serves as a reminder of the importance of cultural awareness and compliance with local laws for military personnel stationed abroad.
